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We hope that you will consider sharing your personal story on Faith & Grief’s website.  Your willingness to write portions of your grief journey will bring both comfort and encouragement to others.  Comfort comes in part by recognizing that we are not alone on this long and winding road of sadness, bewilderment, anger, and fear.  Together, we are encouraged by discovering that “darkness turns to dawning” and that the human spirit is resilient.

We recognize that the writing process may evoke a storehouse of emotions.  Yet several who have contributed are caught by surprise at the healing power that began by telling their story.  Pictures are welcome, as well.  If you wish to share, submit your story via our Contact Page.  Please include pictures (3-5), or any other supporting media.  Once submitted, you will be sent a release form, please sign and return to

Due to the large volume of stories, we are not able to let you know when your story will be posted.  Check daily and forward to your friends and family.

Faith & Grief: A Process


  Friday, September 28, 2012, my son Matthew was 22 years old and a senior at the US Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs. That afternoon, we were notified that he had died by suicide. My knees buckled and my world collapsed. Despite the flood of friends and family to our house, I didn’t know […]

Maybe Mystery Is Meant To Be


This piece was written for The Kansas City Star in April of 2005, three and a half years after 9/11. It was shared September 5, 2017 at the Faith & Grief Ministries gathering in Kansas City. To get to the burial site, we walked down a dirt path that started by the side of the […]

Remembering Dad


  I was only tall enough to peek over the top of the window sill in the front room of our house. I would have to stand on my tiptoes to be able to see down the long, tree covered street to the corner where the downtown bus would drop him off. My heart would […]

The God of Here and Now

  January 8, 2008, started out as an ordinary day. Thunderstorms dominated the skies, but life went on as usual. It was my junior year of high school and I was probably the biggest band nerd that has ever existed. My life revolved around my work in the school band. My best friend James and […]

Living with Compound Grief


We, (my husband, Rich and I) always believed that God accompanied and guided us on our life’s journey.  In November 2009, after 56 years of marriage, Rich had a devastating stroke that left him without strength or movement on his right side and without the ability to speak.  With the help of therapists he regained […]

Healing Through Poetry

One of the challenges in the process of grief is to discover healthy, creative, and sustainable coping skills.  John Lundberg, writer, poetry teacher, and a Wallace Stegner Fellow at Stanford University, blogs about the healing that can come through writing poetry.  He blogs, “If you have ever written a poem, you know that the act […]

A Journey of Loss and Faith


“Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.” That was the mantra of our marriage by 2012. I’d had the quote emblazoned on tote bags, notecards, and journals, along with our photo. After 27 years of marriage, we’d finally learned what it was to truly treasure each other during David’s cancer treatment […]

Turn Grief into Abiding Joy


  At my pastor’s suggestion, I attended the Faith & Grief Ministries retreat, Comfort & Hope on the Journey of Grief, at Mo Ranch in February 2016.  I had passed the one year anniversary of my husband’s death and thought I was doing pretty well.  I honored his passing by going away with a girlfriend […]

Living Our Lives to Make Them Proud

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“We love them. We miss them. We grieve them. And so, we live our lives to make them proud.” This Christmas season, we can’t think of better words to describe our aching longing for the loved ones we’ve lost, as well as our desire to honor their memory by conducting our doctoral research in the […]

Stillborn and A Life-Giving Dream


I was pregnant and had been sick in the hospital for two weeks. During my stay in the hospital I had a lot of time to think, and it came to me one day after prayer, that our baby was going to die. I felt I couldn’t handle this.  I asked Jesus to help me […]